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post Aug 6 2008, 02:48 PM
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Do you find it difficult to daven on time?

I do, lately. Any ideas for improving? How do you make yourself want to daven enough that you get up even when tired to daven Shacharis on time? (there's no minyan for me to go to to provide structure.)


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post Aug 6 2008, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE (existwhere? @ Aug 6 2008, 03:48 PM) *
Any ideas for improving?

What's the very first Mishnah Berurah?
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post Aug 6 2008, 02:52 PM
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I'm starting to have the same problem. Let's race each other, and we'll report back every night.
How does that sound?
Person who gets up earliest two weeks in a row gets ________?


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post Aug 6 2008, 02:57 PM
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QUOTE (existwhere? @ Aug 6 2008, 03:48 PM) *
Do you find it difficult to daven on time?

I do, lately. Any ideas for improving? How do you make yourself want to daven enough that you get up even when tired to daven Shacharis on time? (there's no minyan for me to go to to provide structure.)

No, but that's because I have to be up and about pretty early.

Why can't you get up?


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post Aug 6 2008, 03:53 PM
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QUOTE (melech @ Aug 6 2008, 03:51 PM) *
What's the very first Mishnah Berurah?

That this is our purpose and you have to get up.
QUOTE (Majorthinker @ Aug 6 2008, 03:52 PM) *
I'm starting to have the same problem. Let's race each other, and we'll report back every night.
How does that sound?
Person who gets up earliest two weeks in a row gets ________?

OK. smile.gif In PM so it won't be too public and we'll have a written record.
QUOTE (pleats @ Aug 6 2008, 03:57 PM) *
No, but that's because I have to be up and about pretty early.

Why can't you get up?

Because I don't have to be up and about until later, and there's a lot for me to do at night.


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post Aug 6 2008, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE (existwhere? @ Aug 6 2008, 04:53 PM) *
That this is our purpose and you have to get up.

End of story.
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post Aug 6 2008, 04:09 PM
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QUOTE (existwhere? @ Aug 6 2008, 04:53 PM) *
Because I don't have to be up and about until later, and there's a lot for me to do at night.

That's the trick... making davening a "have to."
Can you do any of the night stuff during the day?


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post Aug 6 2008, 04:12 PM
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Davening is a 'have to'. The thing is that you can always daven 5 minutes later. Closing your eyes for 5 minutes is nearly fatal every time.


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post Aug 6 2008, 04:20 PM
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QUOTE (pleats @ Aug 6 2008, 05:09 PM) *
That's the trick... making davening a "have to."
Can you do any of the night stuff during the day?

You're right.

Not really, they involve working with people who work during the day.
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Davening is a 'have to'. The thing is that you can always daven 5 minutes later. Closing your eyes for 5 minutes is nearly fatal every time.

Yes. I know.


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post Aug 6 2008, 04:22 PM
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Really? You mean people actually have somethign to do?? I can't believe it.
At any rate...we'll see who can beat the 5-minutes-more y"h the most.


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post Aug 6 2008, 10:36 PM
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QUOTE (Majorthinker @ Aug 6 2008, 02:52 PM) *
Person who gets up earliest two weeks in a row gets ________?

A lot less sleep?


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post Aug 24 2008, 07:41 AM
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QUOTE (melech @ Aug 7 2008, 12:26 AM) *
End of story.


In an ideal world.
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post Aug 24 2008, 08:31 AM
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Actually we did do that for a while, and it really helped. I wish my fear of basar v'dam was the same as that of yiras Hashem, but it did help because I was embarrassed that someone should know I davened late. sad.gif


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post Aug 24 2008, 08:38 AM
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Then we should continue. I'd like to know what time you got up today.... glare.gif
Oops, by accident I overslept. sad.gif Let's restart tomorrow, lol. JK. Pm me.


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post Aug 24 2008, 09:19 AM
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QUOTE (thinking @ Aug 24 2008, 08:41 AM) *
In an ideal world.

The world that God created isn't an ideal world?
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post Aug 24 2008, 09:20 AM
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QUOTE (melech @ Aug 24 2008, 10:19 AM) *
The world that God created isn't an ideal world?

What about the world that we create?
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post Aug 24 2008, 09:22 AM
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QUOTE (Jeanette @ Aug 24 2008, 10:20 AM) *
What about the world that we create?

we've got alot of work to do. smile.gif

and to answer the OP sometimes yes sometimes no. . . when its hard, its really hard though.


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