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 Aug 17 2008, 02:29 AM
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 Rebbe  Group: Members Posts: 1,434 Joined: 6-August 05 From: עיר של שלום Member No.: 1,709  |
Would you marry someone from this forum or another? Why or why not? Discuss.
-------------------- על כל אחד ואחת להוסיף בתורה ובמצוות כדי להכריע את עצמו ואת כל העולם כולו לכף זכות!
'It is every Jew's duty to add in Torah and mitzvot in order to bring the geula.' |
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Aug 17 2008, 02:30 AM
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 grannylicious  Group: Members Posts: 3,455 Joined: 23-December 04 From: anywhere there's wifi Member No.: 947 |
I'd love to, only my husband might have something to say about it.
-------------------- "Mommy, is this the house where we are allowed to swing on the chairs, or the house where we're not allowed to swing on the chairs?"
- My three year old granddaughter. There is being a real father, and there is being in the same room as your wife when she conceives. |
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Aug 17 2008, 07:36 AM
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 Pretentious Blockhead Group: Members Posts: 4,367 Joined: 22-April 05 From: ^ Member No.: 1,446 |
and not be able to flirt?! he'yale no!
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Aug 17 2008, 07:37 AM
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grannylicious Group: Members Posts: 3,455 Joined: 23-December 04 From: anywhere there's wifi Member No.: 947 |
QUOTE (Ahavati @ Aug 17 2008, 01:36 PM)  and not be able to flirt?! he'yale no! That's true! -------------------- "Mommy, is this the house where we are allowed to swing on the chairs, or the house where we're not allowed to swing on the chairs?"
- My three year old granddaughter. There is being a real father, and there is being in the same room as your wife when she conceives. |
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Aug 17 2008, 07:48 AM
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Pretentious Blockhead Group: Members Posts: 4,367 Joined: 22-April 05 From: ^ Member No.: 1,446 |
QUOTE (lyric @ Aug 17 2008, 08:37 AM) That's true! good morning, Lyric. 
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Aug 17 2008, 07:49 AM
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Pretentious Blockhead Group: Members Posts: 4,367 Joined: 22-April 05 From: ^ Member No.: 1,446 |
how many times do i have to tell you?!
and not be able to flirt?! he'yale no! -------------------- |
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Aug 17 2008, 10:58 AM
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 Disgustingly Insensitive Group: Members Posts: 16,933 Joined: 9-February 04 From: Occupied Palestine Member No.: 407 |
QUOTE (Ahavati @ Aug 17 2008, 08:36 AM) and not be able to flirt?! he'yale no! You can still flirt online if you are dating/married to someone on the forum....... Oh, you mean with everyone ELSE.... meh, a little jealousy is GOOD in a relationship... 
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Aug 17 2008, 11:01 AM
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High on Life  Group: Moderator Posts: 2,872 Joined: 15-June 03 Member No.: 80 |
QUOTE (Majorthinker @ Aug 17 2008, 03:29 AM) Would you marry someone from this forum or another? Why or why not? Discuss. would you? -------------------- Has the world started spinning in the other direction?
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Aug 17 2008, 11:03 AM
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QUOTE (Majorthinker @ Aug 17 2008, 03:29 AM) Would you marry someone from this forum or another? Why or why not? Discuss. In theory I would. Why not? Is there a reason to be prejudiced against someone because they're on a message board? You're on a message board. Are you prejudiced against yourself? |
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Aug 17 2008, 11:23 AM
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 Gabbai  Group: Members Posts: 416 Joined: 26-September 03 Member No.: 266 |
Why not? If I met him in a different capacity than on this forum, H.com would certainly be no dealbreaker. After all, like GF said, I'm on it myself....if I find it fun, so would he. But actually meeting the person on the forum might be an interesting move - it's hard to really get to know a person via IM or PM. Once you meet the person, your emotions are already high and logic is skewed by predetermined feelings towards the person. Again, it works for some, but not always.
-------------------- Good things come in little packages..............just like me!
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Aug 17 2008, 11:28 AM
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Disgustingly Insensitive Group: Members Posts: 16,933 Joined: 9-February 04 From: Occupied Palestine Member No.: 407 |
QUOTE (Teeny Beeny @ Aug 17 2008, 12:23 PM) it's hard to really get to know a person via IM or PM. I vehemently disagree..... In many ways it is the best and most "accurate" way to get to know someone..... QUOTE Once you meet the person, your emotions are already high and logic is skewed by predetermined feelings towards the person. Again, it works for some, but not always. Which can allow for relationships which may have never happened otherwise on paper, or because of "superficial" reasons...... And I agree "not always", and that you MUST meet and date the person normally IRL before reaching any conclusions, but there is a reason that "online dating is so popular these days...... -------------------- [/flirting]
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Aug 17 2008, 11:31 AM
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 חסד זך Group: Members Posts: 3,073 Joined: 16-March 08 From: middle of nowhere Member No.: 7,158 |
QUOTE (Kalashnikover_Rebbe @ Aug 17 2008, 12:28 PM) I vehemently disagree..... In many ways it is the best and most "accurate" way to get to know someone..... Which can allow for relationships which may have never happened otherwise on paper, or because of "superficial" reasons...... And I agree "not always", and that you MUST meet and date the person normally IRL before reaching any conclusions, but there is a reason that "online dating is so popular these days...... I don't think that you can really get to know a person by IM. there is so much of the persons soul that you're missing that you can only get by watching them speak and listening to the inflection in their voice and the expressions in their eyes. There is so much that you can only get by watching them deal with the grocery store cashier, or by watching them eat some ice cream. in their posture, the way they dress and carry themselves, there is a world of information that you're missing. they could well be two totaly different people! -------------------- "well has beruria spoken"
"be kind to the newbies, or Sporky R will come to get you." "when our dreams die, we die" ~Mrs. Ramen |
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Aug 17 2008, 11:32 AM
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High on Life Group: Moderator Posts: 2,872 Joined: 15-June 03 Member No.: 80 |
QUOTE (Teeny Beeny @ Aug 17 2008, 12:23 PM) it's hard to really get to know a person via IM or PM. i disagree. as long as they're being honest, of course. -------------------- Has the world started spinning in the other direction?
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Aug 17 2008, 11:32 AM
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 Hocker  Group: Members Posts: 194 Joined: 17-June 08 Member No.: 7,323 |
So who is the most eligible bachlor/ette? Thats gotta be an original thread on this site.
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Aug 17 2008, 11:33 AM
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Disgustingly Insensitive Group: Members Posts: 16,933 Joined: 9-February 04 From: Occupied Palestine Member No.: 407 |
QUOTE (outspoken @ Aug 17 2008, 12:31 PM) I don't think that you can really get to know a person by IM. there is so much of the persons soul that you're missing that you can only get by watching them speak and listening to the inflection in their voice and the expressions in their eyes. There is so much that you can only get by watching them deal with the grocery store cashier, or by watching them eat some ice cream. in their posture, the way they dress and carry themselves, there is a world of information that you're missing. they could well be two totaly different people! A good faker can fool you about ALL those things IRL too...... Like Spot said, it's all about honesty... -------------------- [/flirting]
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Aug 17 2008, 11:34 AM
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High on Life Group: Moderator Posts: 2,872 Joined: 15-June 03 Member No.: 80 |
QUOTE (Peanuts @ Aug 17 2008, 12:32 PM) So who is the most eligible bachlor/ette? Thats gotta be an original thread on this site. don't derail this thread to become another popularity contest -------------------- Has the world started spinning in the other direction?
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