Talking in shul |
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Talking in shul |
Aug 19 2008, 05:24 PM
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Just wondering, in the shul you go to is there an issue with too much talking in shul? I know that some shuls have this problem. How can we improve the situation? Does anyone have ideas?
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Aug 19 2008, 05:34 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 1,793 Joined: 21-June 06 From: Southern boy trapped in NYC Member No.: 2,898 |
I davka look for a shul with a quiet davening.
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Aug 19 2008, 06:22 PM
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Resisting imamother, resisting imamother, resisting imamother .. Group: Members Posts: 3,223 Joined: 20-October 05 Member No.: 1,939 |
According to the Alte Rebbe it's ossur to talk in shul during the time of tefilah, even if it's between aliyos. Look for a Chabad shul, then !
-------------------- "Scientific experimentation is like sex. Sometimes something useful comes out of it, but that's not why they do it." Lyric
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Aug 20 2008, 01:37 AM
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My shul does NOT tolerate talking during davening. Which is why I daven there.
The members don't talk, which sets the standard for all guests that walk in. |
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Aug 20 2008, 07:31 AM
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Group: Members Posts: 3,445 Joined: 12-August 06 From: Bilad el-Sudan Member No.: 3,228 |
In the "good old days" (of which I am too young to have been a part), many esnogas would fine people who spoke during reza. I wonder if dues would be less were the mahamad (governing body) to do so today...
-------------------- QUOTE (err) To me the only constructive thing to come out of the "OTD phenomenon" is that most of them are really ignorant or have primitive ideas about Judaism, so if people were more introspective we could reflect on the shoddy state of the schools and what kids are learning |
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Aug 20 2008, 07:46 AM
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My shul is silent, and I can't daven anywhere else. You won't hear a peep out of anyone. Even the children/teens in shul don't say a word. The people there are earnest, and it's a heady experience to daven there on Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur.
Last year I moved, and I decided to daven in a closer shul. After 10 minutes of shacharis, I left and walked back to my original place. -------------------- My cancer is rarer than your cancer.
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Aug 20 2008, 04:07 PM
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Newbie Group: Members Posts: 71 Joined: 27-June 08 Member No.: 7,346 |
My shul has a huge problem with talking, even the Rav has been known to talk. It bothers me that the doors are locked for the Rav's speech, but during krias hatorah and kedusha etc., it's a come and go as you please with kids running in and out.
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Aug 20 2008, 04:41 PM
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My shul has a huge problem with talking, even the Rav has been known to talk. It bothers me that the doors are locked for the Rav's speech, but during krias hatorah and kedusha etc., it's a come and go as you please with kids running in and out. Wow, that is pretty backward! Well my shul is so (physically) large and there are so few people in it, any talking probably won't be heard anyway. Nevertheless, it is very annoying if I'm sitting by a "talker"; and I will get up and move! -------------------- |
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Aug 20 2008, 04:56 PM
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Just wondering, in the shul you go to is there an issue with too much talking in shul? I know that some shuls have this problem. How can we improve the situation? Does anyone have ideas? B"H, No. We can stop talking. Ever. Even after davening until you leave shul premises. (which I unfortunately can't due for social reasons, but I know some rebbetzins who do, and it makes everyone else more careful about it.) -------------------- "If they would allow one dead soul to visit an assembly of philosophers, that would be the end of all their teachings."
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Aug 20 2008, 05:04 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 13,066 Joined: 16-September 05 From: Washington, DC Member No.: 1,838 |
I don't think talking in shul is a "problem". I think it's nice that people are friendly with each other. Uptight people who shush everyone should move back to Germany or something.
-------------------- Kabel et ha-emet mi-mi she-omro.
"All is by the hand of Heaven, except colds and fevers" -Ketubot 30a. Why won't my wife let me pee against the fence when we have company for a barbecue? -melech ~My Blog~ |
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Aug 20 2008, 06:00 PM
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Gabbai Group: Members Posts: 722 Joined: 3-February 06 Member No.: 2,325 |
agreed, i enjoy talking in shul, it makes the whole experience much more enjoyable
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Aug 20 2008, 06:01 PM
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I don't think talking in shul is a "problem". I think it's nice that people are friendly with each other. Uptight people who shush everyone should move back to Germany or something. agreed, i enjoy talking in shul, it makes the whole experience much more enjoyable |
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Aug 20 2008, 06:07 PM
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One of the things we love about our shul is that people don't talk AT ALL during services.
If they want to talk, people can (and do) go out into the lobby where there are chairs set up for precisely this purpose. Basically, people can daven or they can talk. They can't pretend to be davening when they are really talking and they can't disturb others' davening with their talking. -------------------- "But it's a dry heat."
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Aug 21 2008, 12:27 AM
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I don't think talking in shul is a "problem". I think it's nice that people are friendly with each other. Uptight people who shush everyone should move back to Germany or something. agreed, i enjoy talking in shul, it makes the whole experience much more enjoyable Are you joking? |
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